As I read your post, you bring back a trying time for me.
I too, was in your situation, but younger. I was a nineteen year old sophomore. Before then, I SWORE I would NEVER get an abortion, but I can tell you from experience, things change once you are in the ACTUAL situation. I can't tell you what is the best decision, but I can tell you what I was told to do by a friend when I went through this.
Pray. Ask the Lord for guidance in your trying situation. He will guide you. Also, don't EVER think for a second that your life is over, simply because of this situation. This is simply a bump in the road of life. Whether or not you decide to bring life into this world or not, you still will be a strong woman, and you will get through this! Lastly, if you do decide to bring life into this world, do not EVER doubt for a second that a man would not want you. If you are a strong positive woman who is about something, then believe me, a REAL man would be able to see this, and wouldn't be hesitant to be with you. I'm not speaking garbage here, I am speaking from what I have seen in quite a few situations.
I am the same age as you, so I can understand what you are going through. Even though I don't know you, I will pray for you, and I hope that you make the best decision for yourself.
Sisterly,
PrettyPetite
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