Hey, I want a massage from Justin too! Can I be a PNM again?
IFC at my school used to set up a room in the student center called "Elsewhere" where rushees/PNMs could go to de-stress. They had things like Play-Doh, coloring books, Lego, etc. GLO members could also enter, but they had to take off their letters or turn them inside out, and could not approach PNMs to invite them to rush events. For many rushees, it was a welcome respite where they could drop off fraternities' radar screens and forget about rush for an hour or so before plunging back into the fray.
So PNMs, sit down and pull up a coloring book... Justin will be with you shortly.