One of my best male friends just became a member of a BGLO. I wanted to join a Black sorority but didn't make it. Now that he's a member he has more things to do and we don't spend as much time together. I let him get away with that since he's reveling in his new found brotherhood. The only "strain" comes when he talks about Greek things because I, having not made my org, don't really want to hear about it. But I don't say anything because it's natural for people to talk about what's going on in their lives and we talk about everything. But he's still the same person and I am very happy for him!!
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