That is the age old accusation! But I put it to you like this Soror no change can come about unless you allow it. As a Bro once told me "when you are in a greek lettered organization your personality does not change it only gets magnified because people are now watching you" This means that you are still the same person you were before. If you were stuck up before you will be stuck up after just more people will now notice it because you are a member of the Org. Like the Sphinxpoet for example before he had Millions of fans now he has Millions and Millions of fans
If Ya Smell What the Sphinxpoet is Cooking