the grls that quit we have never met...they were contacting us through email and we tried to make meetings with them so that we could get to know them and decide if they were right for rho sigma zeta how can u tell someone your secrets when you don't even know them in person?
the reason we kept her in the dark is because she was not yet a member we had not even met her...my thoughts on this are posted here
http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums...threadid=37723
we wanted her to be a part of it we just wanted to meet her b4 we made our decision...at the meeting that was scheduled for yesterday 8/10 we were going to get to know them and invite them to join us...this didn't happen tho and then today she unexpectedly and publicly quit...i'm sorry it had to be that way...she would have been a great sister...