[UFGatorGirl311]

I'm really confused on what to do. I really wanted to Rush, and then I got really stressed about fall. I decided that I wasn't ready to make the commitment of pledging just yet, and I wanted to get to know the girls of the sororities before I decided to pledge. I also didn't want the time commitment of being in a sorority just yet so i could go home on the weekends if I get homesick, or to visit my boyfriend. I decided that I would pledge in the spring.

My mom is unhappy with this choice. She thinks that I should rush and pledge so I can have a close group of friends, and required grades and study time, and I would be able to maintain my level of volunteer work. I just feel like a huge load has been taken off my shoulders by putting off rushing until the spring, but I dont want to rish not being able to get a bid from anyone.

Any advice??