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When Will broke off our engagement I found myself 15 hours away with a few things of his...and not necessarily his, but things like pictures, cards that somehow ended up in my pile....a cell phone...
I told him I'd mail the phone back and did...after a huge argument about the ring I did take (he broke it off afterall). He held my things for randsom (and never has mailed them to me)...so what did I do? I got a tiny package and emailed him all those beautiful pictures of us, the cards and phone back. It felt SO GOOD. I was like, okay you don't want me? Well here, you can stare at the pictures cuz I certainly don't want them.
Personally, I'd give back things that didn't belong to me. Being on BOTH sides I know how it feels to give it back (the closure) and not to get it back (putting it beind and moving on). Some of the things I didn't get back included teddy bears from when I was a toddler and pictures of me and my daddy that we don't have duplicates of. I just had to chalk it up to material items...I still have the pictures engrained into my memory so he can can keep em.
That's just my thought!
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