jax,
i don't know if you will be able to get a restraining order. you can check with your local police station about what has to happen. it is not like stopping by the grocery store and picking one up. definately keep track of his calls. do not delete the numbers from your caller id. on your cell phone, you may not be able to do that. definately contact your cell phone and telephone service provider. they can put a block on the number or they can track the calls for you so that you will be able to press charges for harrassment. you might consider turning off your voice mail for a while. this way you don't have to deal with all of the messages.
this happened to me once too. luckily, it didn't last for too long. the guy ran into my younger brother one day and was asking what i was doing, where i was, etc. my brother was aware of what he was doing and told him that if he ever contacted me again, that he would beat the shit out of him! he never called again! lol.
good luck!
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