I agree with swissmiss...this guy's behavior is not your fault. I don't care if he has some sort of chemical imbalance that's making him act like this, you, HotDamnImAPhiMu, are not responsible for it. I've only had one ex turn "stalker" on me, but I know exactly how you feel and it isn't a lot of fun. This guy was not "normal," per se; he had emotional problems, which I had nothing to do with but I guess I made them sort of snap when I broke up with him. Luckily I did not have to end up getting a restraining order, but if this has been going on a while and shows no signs of stopping, please consider it. Just for your peace of mind, if nothing else.
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