Well, you probably heard conflicting reports because it varies from chapter to chapter. It seems that sorority A has probably done it in the past and/or is open to it, while sorority B is not. Know what that means? One less house for you to go to for Spring!
I know we should all keep open minds, but you are. It's not so different from a low grade issue. Just because one won't make and exception to a lower than standard grade point, it doesn't mean they are all like that. And in the end, it will be for the best. Good luck and keep us posted!