Honest Answer
OK here is the deal... Do you like him? If so, do what he likes sometimes. If he wants to go to KFC one night, don't act like you are missing out on something. Then, he will be able to go w/ you on other nights and not act so shy. I am sure he can find someone to talk to. Don't take him to a formal and then ditch him and expect him to have fun. If you want to date a schmoozer who can work the room, then date one. This guy sounds like a nice guy though... pretty genuine. Also, when he gets together w/ his boys some time and wants you to go... go. Even if they are just sitten around watching "Ride w/ Funkmaster Flex" like my friends will be doing once it starts on SPike TV. Yes, the Men's Network. You might have to sit and bear through the MEn's network for this guy... LOL Anyway, just try to be cool w/ him and he will go with you when you want him too. Sometimes sorority girls (no offense) can tend to be extremely abrasive when they are like freshman and sophmores. I think it is because they think they have to be so "social" and "friendly" and they would scare me too. Tell your friends to ease up on a brother. He can deal w/out being introduced to like 50 girls in the 1st 5 min.
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