Yeah, I've done it...A-okay. I would/have ask(ed) my SO to take the test as well.
As for the condom thing...maybe it's just me, but I think I will use condoms until the day I get married. My reasoning for this is the same as one of the previous posters, there are other STDs you can get besides HIV/AIDS...and if I don't have 'papers' on you, I will never truly be totally sure that you aren't dipping out on me. I know that marriage is not a cure for cheating, but ideally I will be more comfortable in knowing that my husband is with me and me only.
ETA: With all that said...very, very rarely
stuff happens
, but I'm talking about on a consistent basis.