[Dionysus]

Like a few said, I'd rather just go my own way-doing neither.

Of course in some situations being independent is not an option. Then it is situational. I'm not crazy about leading, too much accountability, but when people don't know what the hell they're doing, I don't mind taking the lead for a while. Otherwise I just rather to go w/ the flow.

Also, being the leader puts a big target on your back. Sometimes I think indirectly persuading another leader to do things your way is the better option than leading yourself. Kind of manipulative, but it's one of the older tricks in the book that works.