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Originally posted by sairose
Our fraternity is near and dear to us, and if I were to join another sorority I would be crushed if I could not wear my SAI badge next to the other.
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I understand what you're saying, but then how would you decide which Badge to wear closest to your heart? Most organizations have rules that stipulate that the badge be worn over the heart (Alpha Phi does not), so even if you place them side by side, by placing one closer to your heart than the other, you're indirectly giving preference to one organization over another.
It's confusing, I know - but I think that the best solution in all of this would be for your friend to wear her SAI badge at SAI events, and then maybe wear a rose pin or other AOII jewelry to signify her link to AOII, and then at AOII events, wear her AOII badge and whatever 'recognition' pin (or other item of jewelry) that has special meaning to initiated members of SAI.