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Hmm...
Well I don't think this question will ever be answered one way or the other. Why? Because people who have been rejected from (fill in the blank) org will always be bitter and blame that org. People who are already members will become defensive at this and lose their objectivity. And people like me who are trying to walk in the other side's shoes will never know what that feels like unless we truly get to the other side. So in my opinion, the personal barbs and such are kind of inevitable in this situation. What is a solution to the problem? I don't have a clue. All I know is one can't really begin to think of solutions until they have found a way to repair the miscommunication and/or bridge the gap between the two perspectives.
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