I lost my virginity freshman year. I think that if I hadn't had sex then I would've by now anyway. Sometimes I think about what if I had waited, but I think I had reached a level of maturity where I was ready, and it was about that time. However, to all the virgins reading this, there's no rush to have sex. Really, there isn't. You can never regain that sense of innocence. Once it's done it's done. Granted, sex can feel GREAT, but sex carries with it ALOT of responsibility and headache (i.e. STD's, pregnancy, emotional involvement, etc.). I don't have sex with a woman unless I feel physical and emotionally comfortable with her. In my opinion, if you don't feel physically and emotionally comfortable with the person, you shouldn't have sex with them. In my opinion the one-night-stand is highly overrated. It feels so much better if you connect on another level.
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