much respect...
so because i'm asking questions and maybe asking everyone to think about how they approach one another...specifically interests...that means that i am starting trouble?
from my standpoint i am merely passing on the knowledge that i have received in my pursuit of other organizations whether they be social, political, service, or a combination of both.
i have learned that no one "gets in good" with the members if they are critical (in the worst sense) of a fellow interest or even just someone who is outside of the whole interest/member circle.
i have also learned that sometimes members are "rude" because as AKA_Monet clearly pointed out as a way to challenge an interest. Or because they are just really rude. or because there is an assumption of intent that has been misinterpreted.
i was personally not trying to start any trouble but i was trying to point out that while some interests are rude...to one another, to others outside of the interest/member circle, and to members...there are other interests and sisterfriends who seek and take advice...even perceived or real..."rude" criticism and comments to heart and they do want members help.
if anyone would like to negatively criticize me they may do so at my email address.
my only assumption is that the last question (and thank you AKAtude for thinking that it is a worthy question...i appreciate it!) hit home in so many ways.
peace
[This message has been edited by lastpoetnsite (edited May 16, 2001).]
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