[nauadpi]

My description to women is that most things take place at night. In my chapter there is the chapter meeting and new member meeting...so two nights a week you have those, but they usually are about an hour each...Other than that most things arent mandatory...I find that most women just end up hangin out more then anything...Also I know in my chapter we open the chapter room up for studying, which helps women to make sure they fit that into their schedules...I believe that it is very possible to take the load you are and still be an active member in a chapter...Atleast take a look and try it out...i hate to suggest this, but if you get involved and find that school is hurting because of your chapter involvement, you can give that up...it can be one of the hardest decissions, but you can do it...So atleast give it a chance.