much respect...
i appreciate all the people who have posted here. it is really good to see people just being real about being critical or what some may see as "rude".
i have another question to add to this.
although it may be understandable that those who are members of the organization can be critical...and maybe a little rude to interests (depending on how you view the post)...or as AKA_Monet said she does it in an effort to challenge interests true desire to be a member.
does it strike some of you as odd that those of you who are interests are not helping one another? if a fellow interest is "whining" about what a member has said...wouldn't it behoove you...considering you both want to be members and if accepted will be calling one another sisters...to lend a helping hand to one another in times of need. no you cannot answer some questions...but there are those who have been researching longer and possibly could help the newer ones in their journey so that they would not have to be singled out.
if interests to this board were on line together would they make it? maybe or maybe not. my mother has always said...and its been said on this board and many others...that there is no "I" when you are pledging/intake. all of you as interests are in the same boat together. how is there a show of "sisterhood" when an interest is quick to down another interest?
if i was a member of an organization the interests that put down other interests in my presence would be the ones that i would definitely not be interested in having as sisters. if you cannot help one another in the initial process of just doing research...how can you truly be unified when doing the later processes?
*disclaimer: i know that i'm not a member of any BGLO so please refrain from throwing this at me. i am just commenting not on any individual but just what i have seen in "real" life and on this board and others.*
sorry if this was too long
peace
[This message has been edited by lastpoetnsite (edited May 16, 2001).]
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