What I mean by acceptable, is that perhaps what you perceive as attitude isn't. In the same way that we misinterpret the tone of some of the members posts, perhaps you all sometimes misinterpret the tone of ours. Also, you say that all members are different. So what seems offensive to one, is not necessarily going to be offensive to another. I have actually seen conversations to that affect; for instance, whether it is appropriate for a non member to purchase 'nalia. Some members don't care about it, while others would have a problem. The same could be said for what types of conversations certain members approve of. Some might be a bit more liberal. (I am not saying this would be the situation every time, but it could possibly be the situation.)
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