[AKA_Monet]

Demand your man to take a HIV test AND show you the results... WTF!!! TAKE HIM TO THE DAYUM CLINIC TO GET IT DONE AND PAY FOR THE TEST IF YOU LOVE HIM ENUF!!!

I couldn't read through all the posts, but my questions is, can we be blunt about a brutha's sexual preferences? Can we just plainly, bluntly ask? 'Cuz if I plan to spend the rest of my life with my man, I wanna know if I have to get term life insurance or a "viatical" reverse mortgage??? Can we be blunt?

Example:

Have you been tested for HIV, lately? Have you ever come up positive?

ANY hesitation on the answer would suggest to me that there are issues abound that I would have yet to want to contend with...

Remember, if he really loves you, then he would protect you... If he doesn't give a dayum, then you would see the inflection in his voice... Even if he says he's negative, still TAKE him to get tested if you have to--AND it ain't about trust... It's your dayum LIFE!!!