Thread: Should I tell?
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Old 08-05-2003, 12:54 PM
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I'm with FeeFee and Hootie. It's really none of your business. I realize that it seems like the moral, correct thing to do to tell the guy about it, but he may know about it already and just not want to think about it. Either way, I just think it would do more harm than good for you to be the messenger bearing bad news. I know it's not fair, but many times the messenger is the one who gets blamed. If you're really concerned, I think you ought to help this girl understand that her behavior needs to change if she marries this guy. I see this as more of an issue between the girl and her boyfriend than just her, because there's obviously something missing in their relationship if she needs to seek affection from other people.
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