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disagree, but
this may not be what you want to hear in this uni-sex milieu...
but women's groups are much different than mens' and while
we hail the difference, the girls will often stay together more than the boys...the guys, if they differ considerably, will tell you to
go to H, leave and the girls will simply not.
Agree or disagree...whatever, I base this on forty plus years of
observing, volunteering....what have you?
Further, the quota system has kept women's groups snobbish,
and huge numbers do not pledge...
believe me, folks, I am on your side, I want us all to win. But the
facts are there, you do not write the checks, pay the bills....
I hope to live to see the day when we all have a good Greek experience and when we do go out into the world we do so with
having had a living laboratory...the chapter....to thank for a job well done.
There will always be those on the bottom....quotas will not help.
Headquarters may/may not want to fool with chapters which are
consistently weak. And sometimes us alums simply wear out trying to keep a group of weenies afloat. Sometimes it is better
simply to pull out and return anew, stronger, and make something positive out of it all.
Let us continue to discuss, even disagree, but remember, us oldies are eager for you guys to win...we did, and we still remember. Hugs...now get busy....and I speak for uncle Tommy Earp (yes he is related to Wyatt) of Lambda Chi, too.
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