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Thought about this and decided to revisit. Good point about it being "hearsay" and not actually witnessed!!! That slipped my mind-probably because nowadays, it's easy to believe people do that kind of thing. Yet, unless you see it first hand...
There is a similar situation around here. The LSU chapter of ABC is strong, but the local chapter is pretty questionable in areas most people feel are important. (morals, GPA, activities, personality...) Crazy, but some girls, NOT TOO MANY, said they wouldn't join ABC at LSU because they wouldn't want to call THOSE girls sisters. It happens in a certain fraternity that exists on both campuses as well. At Homecoming it was soooooo obvious. You would see these LSUers sporting their respective letters turn their noses at the members of their own GLO from the smaller campus. Could it be that the girl you refer to has a more competitive rush (in HER opinion) and feels that makes her chapter more selective?
The way I look at it is-unless there is something DRAMATICALLY wrong, ALL chapters are recruitment tools for the organization as a WHOLE. If you have one person going around saying things like you have HEARD, she is doing harm to her GLO, not just your chapter.
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