so, I don't reply alot but im a faithful greekchat reader! I felt I need to repsond to this thread.
I turned 20 on tuesday and im STILL a virgin. I am very upfront about it and honest with the guys I feel I could develop a relationship with. ALOT of guys don't belive me, but all the girl I talk to have always been very supportative and proud of my decision. The decision that ive made to be a virgin hasn't been a mental decision. Its just that I haven't found anyone yet that I would think about giving it to. My parents taught me that my virginity is special and should be given to someone who loves me and repects me. And its not that Im waiting to get married either. Im just a verry emotional person and I know I would be exteremly attached to him. Im not saying that im not a SEXUAL person, but if youve never had sex, you don't know what your missing. Another thing is alot of women don't orgasim from sex, so if im having oral sex and I CAN orgasim from it, then why would I want to change anything? If im getting mine and his is getting his, then why had sex until out relationship goes to the nexy level? Yes, there has been plently of opprotunities and such, but would I want to put my personal goals and dream to take the responsibility of rasing a child, or taking care of a STD?
I think it would be alot easier to tell someone that im a virgin than I have a STD.
About the whole guy virgin thing. . .
I really don't have alot to say on that topic.....
(off my soap box!)