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I agree with twinstars that it varies depending on the guy's age.
If a guy is still in college, even if he's an upperclassman, virginity is fine and even charming. Both of the serious boyfriends I've had were virgins, and in college, at the time we started dating.
Now that I'm 28 and dating guys in that neighborhood or older, I would definitely get the heebie-jeebies if a guy told me he was a virgin. If he were waiting for religious reasons, he wouldn't be dating a sacrilegious agnostic like me. So is he avoiding sex because of some kind of anxiety or insecurity? Because of a lack of offers? Because he has doubts about his sexuality? I would be pretty suspicious about all three.
Ivy
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