The humble opinion of a humble SISTERFRIEND--If someone in my chapter decided that for whatever reason they would not be active in the organization i would make it my personal duty to find out why and see if i can do any thing to change her mind. If the reason is time, when she does have free time then project will always be sent her way. From some of the people that i know who are greek their problem is a personal one that is an internal chapter issue. That need to be worked out because "sisterhood" is deeper thatn any argument over anything. I would then ask her why she became a member and remind her of the principals that her founders left for her, Would she be ashamed if one of the founders looked her way. Its up to the chapter to amke sur that no one is lost in the shuffle of Parties and service.
that just what i think
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