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I dunno- the older people (guys and girls) get, the more questionable the "waiting for that special someone" line gets. I guess if someone makes it to a statistically unusual age- 24, 26, etc.- and still hasn't met a single person that made the cut, I would wonder if there weren't other factors at play.... for instance, they're afraid to get that close to someone, or they're holding out as a power play (I've seen more than a few college-aged girls- usually ones with some control issues- pull this move).
As a 22-year old female non-virgin, I wouldn't immediately reject a guy who was still a virgin if everything else about him was in order and he was really great to me. If he were serious about waiting until marriage, I don't know if it would work out- I don't know if I'd marry someone whose values are that different from my own. If he were still a virgin at age 22-ish due to circumstance, not for moral/religious reasons, then it would be ok.
Male virginity at this age (early to mid-20's) doesn't hold any appeal for me. It is not something I seek out. I don't feel that experienced myself, and I'd rather be the student than the teacher at this point. I don't know enough to teach yet.
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