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Originally posted by KappaKittyCat
I joke that guys who prefer virgins do so because virgins can't tell the difference between a good lay and a bad one.
I'm with Valkyrie when she says, "I would think that it was either because he was undesirable or very religious, neither of which appeal to me at all."
However, if a guy were decent and sweet and just waiting for the right time/person, then I'd be thrilled if he wanted me to be his first. But really, how many of those exist?
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You know I really do think he is one of those guys who wants to be with a person he really truely cares about first.
I know he can get girls, he plays acoustic guitar and sings in a band and it just makes girls melt. They try to get all over him, but he knows it is purely superficial. They just want a John Mayer fantasy. Believe me, I melt whenever he plays guitar and sings - but I didn't know that was something he did when I first met him.
I don't know - I kind of thought about maybe girls didn't want him like that, but I asked him why exactly. And he said he's had opportunities, but it just wasn't the right time or place. I don't know.
I called him out for lying to me, but I don't know how I am any better for doing that because it did kind of put a negative thing in my head. I don't understand why a lot of girls (myself included) think that because a guy isn't expierenced that must mean that no girls want him. I guess we are just so used to guys talking about how many girls they have done, and that whole "cool" perception might have rubbed off on us.
But I agree KappaKittyKat, if I was with a guy who was waiting for the right person to come along, and he decided he wanted to share his first time with me, it would make me feel kind of special. (Now every guy on this forum will tell all their buddies about this, and we will have a new wave of "Baby this is my first time, but you are the person I want to share it with!" hahah)