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I really have no experience with this, but I think that it just comes from not wanting to be someone's first.
Let me preface this by saying that I'm sure its a big deal to a lot of guys, and i don't want to portray guys as like, lusting after virgins, but just based on the way things are physically, guys get more of a thrill out of taking a girl's virginity than the other way around.
-Think about it, a guy is kind of in control of what goes on, but if you're a girl and you're his first you can't really, like, tell him how to do it...i dunno its hard to explain, this probably makes no sense, lol...basically if a guy is with a girl and its her first time all she really has to do is lie there, but in the reverse situation its probably more awkward. Then for the girl, there's the responsibility of teaching him what to do.
I really have no opinion on the subject, it wouldn't really change my mind either way about him, although I'd definitely be pissed if he lied- I think if I was in your shoes I would have called him on that for sure.
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