[meridionaleDG]

but what immeditaly comes to mind when someone tells you they are a virgin? Do you think oh no, or oh yay! Or do you think maybe the person isn't very desirable?

And if you are a virgin (and don't mind sharing), do you feel uncomfortable to tell people (as in someone you are beginning to date) about your sexual expierence?

I ask this because last night I had a first date type of deal, and it came up that he was a virgin. He had been trying to lie about it all night because he was scared of what I would think. He said he usually doesn't lie, but he didn't want me to think bad of him, because usually whenever he tells a girl about it, she gets turned off.

For reasons, I was mad that he didn't tell me (no, we didn't have sex) about his virginity and all. We were having a heated conversation about sex, and I asked him how many people he slept with. He didn't want to tell me which led to me thinking okay this guy is a total ho, and then the lies went on from there so he wouldn't give away that he was a virgin.

I mean, do girls really get freaked out when a guy tells them he is a virgin? Is that the normal thing to do - because it really doesn't bother me at all, I just hated he had to feel like he needed to lie to me about it.