I'm usually called cute. I think my boyfriend is the only person who says I'm sexy. But, I really don't mind. I like being cute.
My friend and I actually had this huge cute vs. sexy debate with our boyfriends, because we both agree that our boys are cute, but not really sexy. (Although, of course, we think they're sexy. It's just that the general public would probably not think of them as sexy.) They threw a fit because they wanted to be hot, not cute. We told them that it just wasn't possible because they're cute and nice and "boyfriendy." So now they call themselves the "miscellaneous men" because they're sexy enough for us to go out with them, but they're not really sexy overall.