I totally feel your pain !!! I have had scheduling problems a lot too and all I can say is weigh the pros and cons and make the decision that is best for you. It *seems* to me that missing soccer is going to cause more long term problems not being on the team at all I mean missing pref isn't going to get you dropped from the chapter... so although missing pref SUCKS... it *seems* to me if soccer is important to you at all, you need to go to that game... but if it's something that you don't really want to do anymore... then go to pref. I'M SORRY you have to make this decision... but do what you feel is right whatever you do it will be becuse you wanted to do it, so don't feel bad you did it because it was best
