Secondthoughts,
As the moderator put said, 18 credits is alot for a first semester. I don't care where you are, for a first semester freshman, that is too much. I suggest sticking to the 12-15 credit limit. Remember, you are at a new place. You will be experiencing new things in your life. Adjustment will have a profound affect on you. You have 4 years in school if you want to pledge you want to make sure your grades are on point. There is no law saying that you have to join NOW. Look at all of the sororities on your campus first. You want to make an informed decision right?
Having a b-friend and starting college is also tough. You will be meeting new people. If are going to be away from your b-friend you have to deal with a long-distance relationship which can be problematic. Girl I say take things slow, there is no time limit. Enjoy your experience, it only happens once. Good Luck
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