I have good news I stuck with with what I firmly believe in and he ended up calling me. He apologize and admits that it bothers him when another dude is in place I said when then why won't you be with me he told me because he won't be faithful and we go to far back I said I respect that and thank you for respecting me but when you are ready I can't promise I will always be there he said he understood but I told him I will never stop being his friend. Now everybody is happy thank you to those that had something good to say and to those that didn't no love loss.