I'm interested in another sorority but I would like to reply.
As far as sharing information with other sisterfriends, for me it depends on the person who is asking for information. I am a really good judge of character. I can tell when another sisterfriend is only looking for the latest "scoop" and information. Especially at my school, it is CRAZY! Folks are running around like chickens with their heads cut off! I know when a person is truly dedicated, discrete, humble, and serious about joining XYZ sorority like I am! So I am more than willing to share and compare information with them. Now, if it’s a person that only calls me or says hello when they need something forget about it!
In regards to the "What is they get in and you don't" argument, I would honestly feel that was NOT my time yet. I'm a strong believer in everything happens for a reason. I would get the depression, crying and hurt out of my system, dust myself off and SIMPLY TRY AGAIN!
Stay strong my fellow sisterfriends!!