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Greetings Everyone,
I have the same PROBLEM. The majority of my friends (including myself) are interested in Alpha Kappa Alpha. The difference between them and myself is, most of them are legacys and I am not. I am very SERIOUS and DETERMINED, to become a member of this great organization. I too have all available info on the organization and the prospective chapter. I too have done extensive research, (read 2 books) I too have a binder full of research, the greek alphabet, and basically all the info I need/have access to(according to the chapter's graduate advisor), at this point in my quest. I ALWAYS make my personal resources available to my friends. I am always the one offereing information about activities and events hosted by the chapter on our campus. In my eyes, there is nothing wrong with helping THOSE WHO TRULY are as serious as you are. I have 1 friend, who is as serious about Alpha Kappa Alpha as I am(that isn't a legacy). This is the only person who I now offer ALL info to. In fact we constantly share and update info. When people are just asking because thier curious and don't have any intentions of pursuing the sister hood, or who you don't feel are AS SERIOUS as you, when it comes to Alpha Kappa Alpha, then I think you need to let them search on thier own. If you do share with others, who are not as serious as you, and by some fluke and accident they get chosen, it will be because of the sweat off your back and they will not truly be able to appreciate it because they didn't do the extensive research and go through the process that a true aspirant has to endure.
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