Ok, perhaps I misunderstood Soror AKAtude's post. I was under the impression that she said what she said outloud, but not TO the girl. If she was speaking TO her, she would have said, "I can't believe YOU'RE wearing that. YOU look stank." She was OVERHEARD. Soror, am I right? If that is the case, then I would have to say, really, how many of us have said things under our breath or even whispered, that could have hurt the person who heard it? What makes it so different or GHETTO because she happened to be overheard? And would it have been different if the young lady had been grown? I could go take a look at the DO NOT.COM thread and pull a couple of not so nice things from that. I guess it's different if you say it behind someone's back? That's tactful?
I think that's phony. Just my .08 . . .