i agree that this girl was not dressed appropriately but i do not think that you should have said that. although she was obviously trying to be grown, she is not. she is still a child. it seems that she already has low self-esteem because of the way she was dressed. what you said was just another damaging blow to her already fragile self-esteem. she was overweight, her breast had just popped out in a very public place, and she was just insulted publicly. i would not be surprised if that girl went home and cried.
i think that if you really felt the need to speak on the subject then you should have pulled her to the side and told her that she was beautiful and that her clothes were taking away from, and not adding to the natural beauty that god blesses everyone with. a bit of direction from a positive female source would have done much more for her.
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