Ladies,
Of course my opinion on this topic will change after I....
But, absolutely, how many college hopefuls do not get accepted to the college of their first choice? How many people have been let down by unreciprocated affection of the opposite sex? How many people get turned down for credit cards?, etc. Life is a about joy AND pain. That is not to say that you should give up on the first try, but I see no harm in exclusivity.
There are so many other things more important than belonging to a BGLO, like being a good parent, being an asset to society, helping those less fortunate than you, the list goes on.
[This message has been edited by NYMinute (edited May 06, 2001).]