I'm sorry you feel bad, i would think about maybe trying to hang on through rush. during rush you can help your chapter select the type of girl whose attitude could help change your chapter, chapters change from year to year it sometimes takes a little effort to make it happen. Of course no one hear is going to tell you to leave,, it makes any group sad to think of a sister deactivating from an org we love, but the choice really lies with you and how you feel on the inside about your chapter. If you feel you have done EVERYTHING you could to make your time in Sigma rewarding and nothing has worked then it is your happiness at stake. I also think you explore whatever outlets you have to make Sigma more enjoyable for you because you will not have the oppurtunity to join another NPC group if you deactivate.I know that all of us here support you and love you as a sister. Rush can change alot of things and sometimes one really good pledge class can turn a group around. I hope that you find a way to make Sigma a good place for you, please know that I am here anytime you need anything.
In Our Bonds,
Ashley
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