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Originally posted by brilia
I like have a big and a sis mom, I am really close to both, but more so my big. I think that it is a good idea to have both. Your sis mom helps you through your new member period. Who knows you could end up having your sis mom as your big. I know several people like that. The great thing about a big is that you get to chose each other, b/c what if you and your sis mom don't get along. It's not fair to either one of you to feel as though you are "stuck" together and the nm misses out on being part of a great family.
Brittany
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I like this. It sounds like they are sticking to the program set for all the chapters regarding sis-mom/dots. And they have just added a nice perk. I don't think it can hurt to encourage more new member relationships within the house. I like the sis-mom/dot program, you don't get to chose her, just like we don't get to choose our birth mothers. And I like the big sis/lil sis because you can mutually select our big/lil, just like we selected our sisters during recruitment. Best of both worlds.