I think it should be up to the PNM as to whether or not he or she wants to reveal the name of the groups.
My only request is that PNMs try to be a little more creative and do what aurora_borealis is suggesting if they do want to keep the names a secret. They could use names of cookies, cartoons, sports teams...whatever. It does get confusing to try and keep track of all of the ABC, XYZ, DEF, GHI, JKLs ** especially ** when the campus has 10+ sororities!!
Using numbers ("Group 1, Group 2....") is okay, but some PNMs forget and it gets messed up. For example, on a campus where there are 9 sororities, they'll say "I cut groups #1, #3 and #7". Then, the next day they'll say "Today I went to the party at group 1 and they were great." It's like, did you make a mistake when you posted who you cut or are you talking about the first group you visited today (which should be number 2, 4, 5, 6, 8, or 9)? As long as they keep in mind what dutchgirl suggested, it would be ok.
Oh well...whatever. As long as at the end of it all they say "I am a new member of __________ sorority/fraternity!" I'm happy.
.....Kelly
