well, i think that you need to make it clear to her that you aren't going to talk about rush at all with her! if you start the school year with the knowledge that you will not discuss rush (what to wear, etc) until bid day, then things she be ok. you may also want to talk to her about what happens if she doesn't get a bid...ie. let her know that no matter what happens, you will always be her friend and her roomie!
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