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i think this is definately up to the pnm. i would hate for someone to not post their story bc *we* decided that they had to post names.
personally, i like to know what group is what and i don't get offended if someone said they went to a phi mu party and didn't have a good time. BUT i am NOT a collegiate! if someone was going thru a competitive rush where friends of a friend of your long lost cousin twice removed get a phone calls to give you a recs, then pnms should DEFINATELY NOT post the glos names!!!
it is great if pnms say, for round 3 i am going back to...and use the real names, but again...it is up to the person.
the one thing i really do request of all the pnms is to please keep the groups the same throught the story. (i will use the groups on my campus as an example)
phi mu- abc
alpha chi- xyz
dz- def
pss- lmn
keep the letters the same throughout the week...even if you go to the groups in a different order each day.
one last rant from me....there was a story last year where the pnm really wanted one group and was definately not going to the other. in the end, she went to the second group and has been happy as a clam, but she deleted her thread bc she didn't want her sisters to feel like she wasn't going to put her all into the group. so even tho *we* like all of the dirt, i don't think pnms should post it.
the end.
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