Ask, "The Dumbest Question Is The One You Do Not Ask"!
When a young guy comes in my store with a school shirt on I ask if they are in a Fraternity! If they say No, I ask why!
Depending on the response is how I fraze my question!
Have you talked to LXA. There are a lot of Good Houses on your campus! You dont know what yuou miss by not experienceing the Greek experience!
Hell, I was bashful when I was 3 years old! Been along time since then!!!!
If you are not proud enuff to ask, then why did you join!

Be Proud like I am!!! I think LXA is the Best, but I have met Guys from a lot of Fraternitys and they are great too!