Well here is my $19.08... the word obey was not in my vows

but I will say that I believe that a man is and should be the head of the household.. but as you know head does not mean dictate.. every good leader has good council and that is what I am -- my husband's council and some times I give him just a little nudge in the right direction

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and since he is to love me as CHRIST loves the church I have no problem because if my sweet hubby LOVES me that much then he'll do everything in his power to take good care of me
But I will say this "Ladies have your own relationship with God..before you have a relationship with anyone...."
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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART
[This message has been edited by loviest95 (edited April 20, 2001).]