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Originally posted by Bobby Earl:
It's not about submitting to another based on what the Bible says. It's about giving because you expect the same in return. It's a 2 way street. I know there is supposed to be a head of the household, but REAL BLACK women don't play that sh!$.
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BRAVO Bobby Earl!!! That's what I'm talking about.
Obey was NOT in my marriage vows and there was never a discussion about it. In fact my church (Baptist) doesn't use the word obey. My preacher did a sermon once (long time ago) about why he didn't use the term obey. I don't remember his exact words but I do remember the words "equal" and "partnership" being used.
My husband and I consult each other before making household decsions. I think SWEETAKA said something about sharing the power. That's what we do and it's all good. Three and a half years and still going.
