[Lady2000]

Here's the deal...my best friend has just gotten out of a bad relationship. Actually, she has gotten out of a series of bad relationships starting about five years back. I told her that before she got into another relationship that she needed some HER time. She asked me what she was supposed to do durning this time and I told her work on her self-esteem, other goals, etc. She then asks me how do to work on these things. I had the hardest time coming up with something to tell her because everyone handles their problems differently. My question is after you have been hurt so much how do you use the ME time effectively??