Greetings Sorors!!! I typically stay silent while here in greekchat but this topic really compelled me to respond.
There is almost NO WAY that I would be able to turn in my undergrad chapter or any other chapter for pledging. Let's remember, there is a difference between hazing and pledging. They would have to be doing some really bad stuff (anything immoral or that would compromise someone's integrity)for me to turn them in. And I would still find some other way to handle the situation before I turned them in. That's the LAST choice.
I firmly believe that the process is what makes a soror. You cannot learn about sisterhood, commitment, dedication, etc without it. How would you learn all that you need to know? Let's also remember that the real pledging starts AFTER you get your letters! "Paper" or "real" if all you do is throw your pinkie up, party hop, or wear letters, you get NO respect from me. If you're a hard worker and are committed to Alpha Kappa Alpha then you're alright.
Sorry that this is long but.....that's just me!
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